The American Dream – A Letter From Our President, John Parham

Dear John,
As a citizen of Anamosa, I have seen what you have brought to our community over the past 30 yrs. Let me be one of those that tell you Thank you, you have provided entertainment, economy, Jobs and charity that has touched almost everyone in this community.

Nobody would ever deny that you are a fighter and that you will pull through this just fine.

Everyone hopes that you get the lungs that you deserve and that you can take some time to be with family after that… You deserve it, after all, you gave a lot of us the chance to continue to be citizens of this town by providing jobs.

Thank you for all of the opportunities that you have given us… Just let us know if you ever need a hand… We’d be glad to help out.

Praying for you John. God is in the miracle business. My Mother has stage 4 melanoma and was diagnosed in 2008 and was not expected to live much longer but by God’s grace she is still with us. It is not up to us or doctors to determine how long we live, it is up to God. I believe in the power of prayer and i pray for your healing. By the way buying a Harley was one of the things that was on my bucket list and i marked that off the list in 2008. God Bless you and your family.

Bless you in your struggle. Thank you for J & P

God Bless you with healing Brother John,
I pray for your healing and restoration EVERY day.

When I was 18, I was the passenger in a freak wreck on I 95 by Daytona and I woke up out of a stone cold coma 4 days later on the operating table as 5 specialists were holding the scalpels and about to amputate my legs with the feet ripped off. They said I was crippled for life and I’d never walk again. I convinced them not to cut and laid down back into the coma for 4 more days. I fought my way out of the hospital and back to walking right for the next 3 years. They banned me from motorcycles for life at that time. My left knee was also broken, and they didn’t even know it.

My best friend George was driving. He was killed instantly.. We were both pronounced dead at the scene.

As you well know, when you have a story you hear a lot of other peoples’. I look out into the blue sky and open air and appreciate it also every single day ! HEALTH comes first – there’s no doubt about it.

We wish you and Jill and everyone the very best at JP and will do as much as possible always to aid in your operations and take them to the next level, and get the museum into that building out on the highway where it will fare better.

Frank

Everyone here at RUSH Racing wishes you the best John!! We will pray that God sends you a donor and we’ll say one for your family too! Many thanks for the positive impact you and your empire has had on the industry. Adam D.

Mr. John Parham,
Not only can I empathize, I can sympathize. In April of 2009 I had a planned aortic anuerysm surgery expecting 8 weeks to recover and go back to work. It didn’t turn out that way. Until August 17,2009 the hospital was my home. Infections plauged my body along with another surgery of colon resection… it had turned to swiss cheese in apperance. Weight went from 203 to 144. Basically, I was as close to death as you can get without dying. Like you I had to learn to swallow, eat, use the restroom, walk and live… The simple sounds of birds, sun on your face, breeze on your check and the sound of your children and grandchildren are musical. The simplest things suddenly become the most important.
I am currently back to work and yes able to ride some. This alone has always been a blessing to me. I often say it is my time with God. While time is limited it is valued. I now take care of my aging mother who suffers with dimentia, copd and osteoperosis, all of which are debilitaing. Your letter has given me inspiration to keep up the fight. Take the time to enjoy your bucket list my friend. God speed to you and your family. There are more out here who share your feelings… Take care…. Ride Free and who knows, maybe “God will let us Ride our Harleys in Heaven”…. Gordon

John,
My prayers to you and your family. Your editorial was insightful and correct on getting the right priorities in life. Well said.
My wife and I have been waiting all year for the J&P Open house and have been talking with all our friends to attend. I will be looking foward to meeting you and seeing all the bikes and people next weekend. God Bless. Todd

God Bless you and I pray you have a complete recovery. Also I want to thank you for the wonderful parts business that you and your family has built. The profesional aproach and great American can do spirit that built our great country. You are a success story and all company’s should hold your high standard and ehtics. I will continue to look at J&P cycles first when ever i need parts for my Harley. Stay strong and keep your faith.

Sorry to hear about your condition. My father in law got that from being a fireman in Dallas, I am glad you found out early enough, they told him he was too old to be considered. Pretty nice, considering how he got it, in those days they used a wet towel on their face.

I did fill out the donor form I think I put it on my license but your story got me to confirm it on the website. I hope you get a nice pair REAL SOON

fight on john

What a great testimony and outlook you have on life. Will keep you in my prayers. Stay positive! -Robb C.

I have ordered many things over the years from J&P Cycles and always seem to get very good service before and after the sale when needed.
So I would like to say to you be strong and keep fighting and I will keep you in my thoughts as much as possible.

Tim Williams

John
Hope you are doing better. I’m about your age my wife and I have been married for thirty four years also. I was in an accident about two and a half years ago had to retire and just had to have back surgery. The one thing that I have found out about all of this that just like you my priorities have changed. Our thoughts and prayers will be with you and your family. I hope that you can find a donor. I have a saying (from the group The Moody Blues) “Face piles of trials with smiles it riles them to believe that you perceive the web they weave and keep on thinking free” Again our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Hi John,
Although we have never met I can certainly feel the compassion in your letter. Realizing our time is short on this earth should bring us closer to the reality of eternity and how real it is. I am not writting this to preach to you but remind you that the reason we have had the years we’ve had is because of Christ. His life ended here on earth in just 33.5 years. In the Gospel of John chapter 14 Christ tells us he goes to prepair a place for us, in his Fathers house, where there are many mansions. From reading your letter it appears you are a saved child of God, if that is the case, the future will be greater than anything we have ever experienced. Our biggest challenge is to convince others of that reality so they will join us at lifes end. I will be praying for you. I will be praying that in your last days here you will be a great wittness and testimony for Christ.

In His Love,
J.W. Walker

John,
Many prayers for you and your family. Stay strong and trust in The Lord. He will always provide all that is needed and His timing is perfect. Prayers that you continue to gain strength and enjoy life. Thanks for all you have done for this industry. Love and Prayers,
Daymon LaPoint

Keep fighting John! I am glad to see that God is in your life as life would be empty without those promises he has made. Thanks for reminding us to step back and take inventory of what is really important in life.

Mike Deel

Blessings John…praying for a miracle!
Dave

Wow, what a mess. You hang in there John, and we will be praying for your return to good health.

Look forward to visiting the musuem again.
Mark

Dear John,

My wife and I can empathize with you. She developed pulmonary embolism after a relatively minor surgery. After three years of battling the embolism she was placed on the lung transplant list at St. Paul Hospital (UT Southwestern) in Dallas, TX which has a wonderful staff and doctors. She was fortunate enough to receive a new set of lungs six years ago in July and is still doing well.

Hang in there, and you are so right about little things in life meaning so much more than we tend to give them credit for. We will keep you in our thoughts and prayers and hope that more people realize the importance of being an organ donor.
The gift of life is so precious for so many more than just the organ recipient.

Sincerely,
Ken in New Mexico

John,
My prayers are with you and your family. Keep up the fight and never give up,

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Remember, life isn’t about the destination… it’s about the journey.
God bless you.

Thanks for the inspiring words! Words to live by.
Good luck and God bless!
Gary

Hang in there John. Sounds like you have your priorities straight. God bless.

Chuck

Yes, you are right. Sometimes we take life for granted until an illness opens our eyes to stop and see Gods beautiful creations. Family, flora, fauna, and so many other wonderful creations that are around us daily. Although I will never create anything as wonderful as the before mentioned, (although my daughter is truly a wonderful creation that I happily contributed to, and is a beautiful gift from God) I thank you for starting J&P Cycles. By using it, I have come as close as I can get, to creating something, even though it is not really a living thing, it still sparks my creativity and imagination regularly. I can only wonder and be amazed how God felt when he was creating. So, my prayers are with you and I hope that what you need will be provided when you need it. Keep praying! I am a firm believer that the healing power of prayer is a fact, for Jesus Christ has not only healed me of many of my illnesses, he has saved me and given me a hope for the future.

Take care and God bless you.

T.J. Tyler
threetylers [at] netscape [dot] com

GOD BLESS YOU !

i lost my wife of 26 years almost 5 years ago, i know what you are saying about your priorities. god bless brother, we will keep you and your family in our prayers….stay strong….

I have a good feel’n about your recovery bud. You & your wife are living The American Dream. Hold tight brother your rides not over yet! God Bless You John.

I too am quite familar with Pulmonary Fibrosis as my mother passed away from complications from this awful disease. May the lord’s blessings be upon you and you continue to see the beauty in everyday things most take for granted. Her motto was “It’s all a matter of attitude” I to this day live by that! Keep the faith. A fellow motorcyclist and believer.
Michele Reeves, Cincinnati, Ohio

Wow! Thanks for the reminders. Fight the good fight.

You are so right about taking things for granted… we live our lives as if we are in a race always in a hurry we have to be here or we have to attend this…i think we just need to slow down and like you said sit on the porch and just smell the grass the roses everything that god has put on this beautiful planet for us to enjoy…our prayers are with you and your family… Chuy President San Antonio Calaveras MC Chapter.

dear johnand jill
glad that you are doing better ! I hope you live a long and fuller life , as i wish the same for my friend here at home who also had colon cancer. that is real bad! you take care and ride as much as you can Jim

John,
Thanks for your letter, it touched me. It is very influential for someone like you to take a stand on your faith in God. I checked to see that I am already an organ donor.
In prayers,
Marty

John,
You and your family are in my prayers. God Bless.

Our prayers are with you. Lost my wife of 37 years a year ago. Know exactly what you’re talking about. Faith, family and friends, old and new. God bless.Bob V

Dear John,

My father also suffers from Pulmonary Fibrosis (also never smoked cigarettes) and has had some of the same experiences that you describe in your letter. It is a terrible disease to have to deal with.

I am an organ donor and also would encourage everyone to be one also. Here in MA they are changing the law so that everyone who obtians or renews their license automatically becomes an organ donor unless they opt out.

I wish you and the people at J&P all the best in whatever the furture holds for you.

Frank A.
Boston, MA

I lost both parents to heart disease and lung disease. Dad heart, Mom lung..I have been an organ donor since I could drive. please don’t take your organs with you! There are so many that could use them. John…I wish you comfort!

Hey John,
I just wanted you to know how touched I am by your letter. People such as yourself is why I have put the organ donor sticker on my driver’s license for about 10 years now. I hope one day that you will be able to get a transplant and full fill you second bucket list. Due to economics I had a short bucket list. I have had my motorcycle license for about 10 also, I had one Harley ( Heritage Softtail Classic) about 9 years ago. Since we owned our own business it had to be sold to buy a piece of equipment. I have just purchased a 2010 Street Glide to full fill my want to ride. I am looking forward to doing just that. The way I look at it if something happens to me when I am riding then i have gone doing something that I really enjoyed doing. I would like to make some trips but again do to economics that won’t be possible. Anyway, I pray that God touches your body and your life and helps to ease what you are dealing with. God bless you and your family and I also pray that you get the transplant that need.

God Bless

Diatra (Dee) Caines Maddox

Thank you John for the letter. I will pray for your recovery. I hope this trial you have gone through has increased your faith in Christ as you have had a chance to reflect on what is truly important in life. I also pray for your family and that they may see your life as an example of how Christians should live even through trials like this and that your example will lead others to Christ.

THANK YOU FOR YOUR MOVING LETTER, WE HAD NO IDEA YOU HAVE BEEN SO ILL. MY HUSBAND AND I HAVE BOUGHT PARTS FROM YOU FOR MANY YEARS AND DEPEND ON YOUR COMPANY TO KEEP US IN THE WIND AT AN AFFORDABLE PRICE. WE ARE BOTH ORGAN DONORS. I DONT THINK TOO MUCH CAN BE SAID ABOUT BEING A DONOR.
GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY
TAMMY & JOHN ADORNO

John, I can relate in a way with you. In 1997 I was in a helicopter crash. 2 months in the hospital and 7 month of rehab gave me time to really work on my relationship with God, family and friends. In 2008 I was have trouble breathing, they though I had what you have, turned out to be an infection that was cleared up with steroids. While on oxygen I too woundered how I could do the things I dreamed of, God told me to have faith and hold to those dreams.
Hold tight, we will pray for you. Feel free to contact me anytime with prayer requests or just to talk.

Praying for a healing Miracle for you… Lord we lift up John and seek your glory to heal this lung issue and give Him freedom to do more… God bring your glory and Heal our brother…

Praying Blessing Pastor Frank
King of Glory Biker Ministry . Daytona Beach Fl.

John,
We haven’t met yet, but I’m betting we will some day. I’m rooting for you all the way.

I hope the lung transplant comes very soon, and you’re back up and riding in the near future.

Best of luck from the Dominican Republic!!

Hello
Sorry to hear about your health. Hope you get better soon.
Regarding being a doner. I have thought about this.
I am afraid of signing the back of my license for this one reason. If I was to fall off my bike and was to be injured badly I am afarid the MT’S and or Hosiptal will take advantage of this sittuation and not revive me but let me die.
Why? Because i am worth more to them dead then alive. My body parts are worth a lot of money to this institution. Come on you know that these establishments are as greedy as Wall-street, Osama and or Obummer.
This might sound shallow; me wanting to live instead of letting others live at my cost.
Maybe when I turn a much older age I will do so but for now I don’t trust this system.

Joe

Hi John. My brother (Donald E Nied) just passed away from IPF just last January. It was almost exactly the the three year prognosis he was given. I read with interest your letter because of how close to home this subject is. Every time I visited him I thought it might be the last time. In some ways its a terrible way to pass and in other ways it gives you a chance to get things in order. I hope things go well for you and your family. I still mourn the passing of my brother and now realize just how important he was to me. Definitely smelling the grass and listening to the birds here, with an occasional motorcycle ride. Take care. Tom Nied Carol Stream, Illinois.

John, God bless you. I was diagnosed stage 3-S non hodgekins lymphoma in Oct. ’09 with two months to live. The hardest part of the fight is to say you’re going to fight. I did 6 months heavy chemo and one month of radiation. I’m still looking at the top side and thank God you are too. A song I listen to that helps me through the fight is from Phillips, Craig and Dean, The Revelation Song. Google and listen. I think you will like it. I will add you to my prayers. Every day is a test. At night when you say your prayers, you ask God if you passed and if not, you ask for the strength to pass tomorrow…. God loves you!!!!
Mike Ellis

John be strong and most of all be posative.

Gordon R. Love

Ontario Canada

Mr. John Parham,
I’m very sorry to hear of your physical condition. I hope that you will very soon be the receipient of a lung transplant that will allow you to continue a long life with your family and to continue to do great things for the motorcycle world.
I’ve never been to your place in Iowa, although it is on MY “bucket list”. I have ordered many parts from J & P Cycles over the years to transform my Harley into a great looking daily rider. Thanks for a great selection.
I hope to be able to cross J & P Cycles off my “list” real soon and to be able to shake your hand and personally say thanks.

Wiley Burrus
San Angelo, Texas

Hey, John!
Guess I haven’t been paying attention. Didn’t realize all your health problems were going on. Good Luck! Been a true pleasure dealing with you & your company over a lot of years! Good Bosses make Good Companies! The people I dealt with, all showed, in their attitudes, a good boss. We will keep you in our prayers. God Bless.

John,
You are truly an inspriration to many of us motorcyclist. I too, had a fairly long stint in the hospital after going through 4 1/2 hours to get my right arm to become partially useful. After a total of 21 days and four months of rehab, I do have partial use of the arm. Being a band director in the public schools for over 39 years makes the use of my right arm very neccessary.

The students have adapted to my smaller beat pattern and life goes on. But, with one big difference. After that one motorcycle accident, I don’t take life for granted as I am sure nor do you.
Also, I now enjoy the blacktop on a trike.

I pray for your condition stay steady or improve. God will supply our needs as He sees fit. I pray that a lung transplant comes your way soon.

Again, thank you for your heart felt letter!

Mike Jones

John, My prayers are with you and your wife Jill and I pray that you will find a donor and be able to complete your second bucket list.
Ride safe,
Mike

John,

Keep fighting! We love your company and you seem to be a great family man. Family is what it’s all about. Keep the faith. You will be in our prayers.

Jack

Brother John,
Wow is all I can say.Your story kicked me both in my heart & brain.I am diabetic and can’t donate organs but I press the issue to all my friends.Although we have never met I will add you and yours to my prayer list.You will be here for the 40th anniversary so until then keep fighting-believing and with God all things are possible.
God bless you
Bulldog

John, sorry to hear about your run in with bad luck but as they say shit happens ! Anyhow you sound like a fighter and l wish you all the best.
stay well !
Ted

Wishing you the best. I’ve relied on your good service for years. God Bless Marty Bolton

You are an inspiration to us all…in business, motorcycling, and life. We are with you, and our prayers are with you.

Mr. Parham,

Your letter is a very nice reflection on what matters most in life.

Keep Fighting and Good Luck.

John,

Your company has provided me with excellent products and service over the years in which I have been riding motorcycles.
Having read your letter I now understand the thoughtful and caring service I have received from your company. A company underpinned with high moral values will prevail in most circumstances.
My wife and I have entered your name on the prayer chain for the Lutheran Church we attend in Marshall, Mi. The members of that chain are quite effective in their efforts and we certainly hope for divine intercession on your behalf.
You have our best wishes and sincere hope for your transplant to come about.

Respectfully Submitted,

jim carbary
battle creek, mi

Having recently had open heart surgery, I can embrace the spirit offered in John’s letter. And it brings tears to my eyes as well. That such a vibrant and compassionate man should have to endure this in what should be the best time of his life is so frustrating. My prayers and thoughs will be with you today.

John, i do not know you personally, but i have over time bought items from your company and have always been more than satisfied with my results.
i wanted to tell you that your story really touched me and iwant you to also know as a believer i iwll add you to my prayers.
i have seen God work miracles where my human mind thought hope did not exist, but i was shown differently. i pray that God will allow you more time on this earth to spend loving your family and inspiring others. God bless you and God keep you.

I am recovering myself from a motorcycle accident that has left me with very severe memory issues. It’s good to see that you still have a good attitude towards life. Besides family and friends what else do we have. May God give you strength to endear your plight.

John, my prayers are with you, stay strong
You have provided a great service to the motorcycle enthusiast and I thank you. I will be going down to your store in Daytona Beach on Sunday

Take care, hang in there
Barry

John,

I will include you on my prayer list which seems to get longer the older I get. I’ve been riding since the late 60′s when I started on an old kick-start XLCH. Those were the days, wern’t they?

Over the years your efforts have helped me keep a number of old Harleys on the road. You are correct. The MC family is tight and we are always there for each other.

Hang in there, follow instructions and keep the faith. I’ll see you down the road.

Bruce

Sorry yo hear this, my mother is in the same condition, regards from Mexico.

Lope Saracho

John,
Best wishes to you! I recall meeting you at J&P in August 2006 while I was on my ‘bucket list’ cross country ride. I was truly impressed with your friendliness and down-to-earth demeanor as well as appreciating some of the suggestions you offerred regarding my ride. I will certainly keep you and Jill in my prayers and hope for a transplant soon.
God blesses
Paul Yusko
434 Mountain View Drive
Endicott, NY 13760

John, we are all praying for you. Thanks for sharing your story. You have contributed so much to the industry. Best of luck to you and your family. Ron in Manassas, VA

May God give you strength, and grace. Also I am a Pastor and an organ doner. My card is signed.

God Bless you Mr. Parham. This could not be stated more eloquently. I pray for your health, and wish you to also get to work on at least a bucket list #10.

Sorry to hear of your illness. I got prostate cancer in 2001 and had a 50/50 chance of recurrence after 2 years but have been cancer free all these years. I am a Viet Nam Vet and have always considered myself on borrowed time but when the cancer hit, I only thought of my grand kids and how every remaining minute with them and other family was so much more precious. I asked everyone I knew to pray for me. Iwill pray for you, too.

John, i wish you well and i hope you get a lung transplant if that will help. i donated a kindney to my 1st cousin – he only lived 9 more months before a blood clot took him but in those 9 months he made plans for the rest of his life. his strength came back and a long life looked to be in his future. i just wish he could have lived to fullfil some of those dreams.
Leroy

Dear John,

I’m very sorry to hear of your struggle with PF and I hope and pray that you will be able to have a transplant soon.
I’m not involved in the industry except as a rider for
about 43 years and I can agree wholeheartedly with you that bike people are as real as they come.
Your words about getting priorities straight comes at a good time and I just wanted you to know that I heard you and to thank you for the message.
For you and your family I ask that God’s grace and strength be with you and send what you need in this time of trouble.
Tim.

John,
You are right on the money! I think one of the reasons that we love to ride is that we get to experience all that is around us to a greater degree. Get well soon.

Hi John
I want to tell you to hang in there and be strong I am sure you will come out tops.
Many regards from Cape Town South Africa
Martin

Dear John,

I read your letter and wanted to wish you all the best and also thank you. I make a few parts for the touring bikes and you took time with me in your office in Sturgis (2004). After future development your company picked up my complete line of parts. I have enjoyed my relationship with your employees. Your company has had a part in helping me accomplish some of my dreams that I’ve had and I wanted to thank you for that.

Best Regards and I wish you all the best,

Dennis LeMaire
616 481 8516

John,
You are right on the money! I think that one of the reasons we love to ride is that we get to experience all that is around us to a greater degree. Chrome and accessories are fun but being able to get out and enjoy is the greater reward.

Mr. Parham,
First, you will see all those near & dear to you in Heaven & ONLY what we do for Him here on this planet is what our reward will be forever… So forget about the works of your flesh & the works in this world and start resting in our Lord Jesus for the peace & joy in this life which is beyond all understanding (Philippians 4:6 & 7)…Thank you for providing those of us who love riding the parts needed and enjoy the parts He our Lord Jesus provided you and now do some good for Him with them..
C U upstairs my brother,
jim

Please accept my sympathy. I lost my wife Tess of 37 years on April 27th after being diagnosed in February 2008, after which she was on oxygen 24/7. It is a terrible ordeal that you are going through. One item on my bucket list was to own a Harley. On May 14, I bought a 2009 Sportster 883L. The second thing on my list is to learn to ride it well and safely and then move up to a Heritage Softail. I am 77 and completed the MSF training this past weekend. May God bless you and your family as you all face the future. Sincerely, Wayne

John,

Sorry to read of your life trial. I’m glad to see your response though. Fight! Live! Love!

Today is your day, live it. Take no thought for tomorrow. I’ll pray for a pair of lungs that fit you perfectly, and soon. God bless you and yours.

Tom

So sorry to hear about your health. I just wanted to say hang in there and keep your possitive attitude. My Mom just past away a few months ago at the age of 84 of the same crazy lung desease so I know what you are going through. You will have one more praying for you.

Thank you for writing. It is always a good thing to see the face behind the business. My husband has been ordering parts from your company for over 20 years. He has never been disappointed.

Please know that you will be in our daily prayers as you continue on your journey.

Thanks for sharing your thoughts. Thanks for sharing the donor registration link.

May God bless you and your family.

Because of your letter I went to the website for Indiana and registered to be an organ donor. Should have done this long ago but wasn’t sure how. Thank you John for giving us a reason and a simple way to do it. Good luck in your continuing struggle. Thoughts and prayers for you and Jill.

John,

Our thoughts and prayers from the Virgin Islands are with you. It was treat to get to meet you and Jill, thank you for sharing so eloquently the wisdom you gained at such cost. It impacted me and I consider it a great gift from someone I barely knew. Thank you and may you gain strength from all the good thoughts and prayers.

Miles Stair

Glad you’re still with us, you are in our prayers…

Along with becoming an organ donor, folks can also donate limbs. You may have heard about our friend’s 20 month old grandaughter in Hazelton who lost her right hand and most of her left in a mower accident a couple of weeks ago (we were with Rick & Bernie on the way to J&P when they got the call…). Her surgeon told us that Mayo is putting a database together of limb donors for patients like little Nevaeh… those interested can contact Mayo at their website.

Hope to see you at the open house next week, keep faith and get better!

Charlie & Kelly Johnson
Waterloo IA

Great letter. Thanks for the words of wisdom. We all get hung up on wanting more, doing more and seem to forget about what’s really important in life.
See you on 6/26.

Don Kujawa

Dear John,

I lost my Mom to this bad disease in November. I am fully aware of it damage and conditions of life in the advanced stages.

There are many folks out there with whom are in the same state and stage as you if not worse. Thank you for bringing light to this terrible disease and all those that have it need to do just to get up and make it through the day.

You bucket list must be the top priority! Don’t let another day go by without making plans to cross off one more item. Life is to short, I only wish I had a better understanding of this disease before my mom passed. There were many things on her list that just did not get done.

All of thoughts and prayers are with you!

Your friend,

Ed

Our prayers are with you. Thank you for writing this touching letter.

My bike only sports aftermarket parts from J&P. You guys are the best.

Sandy

Hi John,

I had no idea of your health issues, I am truly sorry! I have been to both your factory and your museum, I also plan on swinging through your Open House on Sunday morning on my way back from a business trip! I truly hope that this weekend brings you immense joy and is a rousing success! I hope for your full recovery!

-G

John,
Thanks for the inspiring words and advice. Your words have made me think of my own situation and how I should manage my own health better. I have 5 grandchildren and enjoy them immensely. I wish you the best and hope for a brighter future.

…..Tom

Thank you for sharing. I have experienced miracles and sometimes forget the seemingly small realities that are so precious when we are forced to slowed down. Like breathing. My licence is being renewed next month and I will consider being a donor.
Sue

Thank you for sharing your story. You and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers. Ride on!

All I can say is a big ‘THANK YOU’ for all that you have done for us, and may god bless you.

I just want to thank you for such a warm, heartfelt letter. I’ve been riding for about 30 years, the last 13 of them as a driver and passenger. I’ve never felt compelled to be an organ donor until I read your letter. I immediately went and registered. Hopefully, if a tragedy strikes, my legacy to my children and grandchildren will be in knowing I helped someone else to live. Thank you again, and God Bless.

Thanks John for your candid, honest thoughts. Thanks for sharing your life experience.

I wish you and your family the best.

Thanks for sharing your (though) life experiences in an open, candid way. A wake up call.

I salute your wisdom and strength ad wish the best for you and your beloved family.

Best wishes, Ed

Thank you for sharing your struggles with Pulmonary Fibrosis and the insight that it has given you and your family. My father passed away at 51 from a sudden heart attack, I thank God everyday for the years I had with him and that our relationship was such a great one. One thing that made his death easier was that he was an organ donor and though unable to use any of the large organs of his body, the doctors were able to use his heart valves, corneas and some veins. All of these went to make other peoples lives better. If anyone is considering organ donation – please know that it truly is a gift worth giving.

Thank you for posting this story. Your accomplishments to date have been extraordinary!

It’s obvious you care about people and have great passion..

Mr.Parham,
I understand exactly where you are coming from…my father died of emphysema six years ago…he didn’t smoke either…as far as I can remember he told me that he might have smoked maybe once a month, the last time being in 1964. Like you said, you never know till something happens to you, and as I saw my dad go through all that…everytime I read something like as in what you wrote…makes me hope that all will take some of your kind advice. My prayers are with you and your family. Keep up the good work and stay strong.
P.Romo

We are praying for you and we send our love….

Please check out H202….It is an oxygen booster/supplement.
h2o2hydrogenperoxide.com

Hello,
i also have a lung disease, (A1ATD). Lung capacity is 18% .49 years young and still riding on two wheels, had to break down and by a electraglide w/ electric start! Love of family and faith in Jesus has kept me alive longer than any doctor could have. I’m also a lung transplant candidate, maybe!? Anyway hang in there, your story sounds like your doing all the right things! Thanks for your letter.
God bless,
Danny Hackel

John,

Here’s to always having a list that inspires you and a partner that desires you! May you enjoy both for years to come.

Cheers, Mark

Hello John,

I must say that your “American Dream” article rang loud and clear in my heart. I know you aren’t looking for sympathy, but I must say it certainly brought a tear to my eye as in certain ways I can relate and connect when you say how important certain things in life are. I used to take life for granted and never had worries about how delicate life really is, until after losing two of my children. Throughout my life, I have lost two of my babies to SIDS (Sudden Infant Death Syndrome) where they really don’t have any idea of why the infant passes, so it is categorized as SIDS.

After going through my losses, I had taken-on a whole different attitude towards life and everything in general. I value even the smallest of things such as every minute I spend with my daughters and people I love. You only live once and it is only what you make of it. No one is going to hand you a perfect life, and besides, life would be pretty dull if it were perfect.

Don’t sweat the small stuff is basically how I go about things. It’s not that I don’t care, it is the fact that I have gotten priorities in order. I now have a better way of looking at things and know what is important as well as cherish what I do have and what I can do to make a difference in other’s lives. Give, don’t take.

It is too bad that many times it takes a severe tragedy or traumatic experience to make people see it this way.

The world needs more people like you and I to help them “see” the way it should be without them having to experience anything like what we’ve experienced in our lives.

I wish you the best, as I would wish any honest and good-hearted soul!

-Bill Hawley

You are absolutely right in all aspects of your letter, life is to short to live in the past, and not enjoy the little things in life. My prayers are for you to have the strenght to countiue to fight your battles. As a rider we are all strong and somehow we all come together like family, and stop at nothing to support anohter rider. Good luck on your 2nd bucket list – “Believe That You Will Complete It”!!! and you will.

Christine Ramirez
La Habra, CA

John ,
This is a subject that is far too close to me . First of all Do what you can when ever you can and make it a point to get the most out of every day. On May 6th of this year I held my fathers hand as he slipped from this world to the next after his fight with PF he was 73 years old. We figured his was due to exposure to chemicals associated with the funeral Business as well as being a fire fighter since 1951 at age 15 . If I could have I would have given him one of my own lungs but being adopted along with the fact he told me in no uncertain terms “Don’t even think about it ”

What Can I tell you except for this Time to have one of your R&D Guys rig up a full face Modular helmet with a BiPAP mask and hose use the device as a back pack and throw the O2 tank into the saddle bags and ride .

With all of my prayers and hope to you and your family.

Jay Eline

John,
Thanks for having the courage to write that letter and also include the picture of you on respiratory assistance.
Great point you made about people becoming organ donors. What greater gift can any of us leave for someone in need. By doing that, a part of us lives on. I have been a donor (listed on Fl. license) for a number of years now. Thankfully I’ve been able to work, ride, and enjoy my family while keeping everything intact.
You obviously have countless friends ready to help you through this struggle. I can’t help believing that the answer to your family’s prayers is closer than you could imagine. Hang in there!! GS.

Dear John and family,
I am just a customer of your business. Once I drove past your business, and once I rode past. Both times it was late and after hours, but someday I’d love to stop in and lay some cash for product on your blessed counter. Being from San Diego I don’t get that way very often, but being 4 years from retirement it isn’t out of the realm to stop.
I have said a prayer for you, your health and your family. I am glad you confess God as your creator. Many will state what has become the “politically correct” these days. I will continue to keep you and your family in prayer and thought. God bless you for your care in the business. Your parts help keep our rides safe.

I enjoyed your letter and the spirit you wrote it with. All of my releif and survival comes through the scriptures with some favorites I have blown up and hanging on my wall. Phillipians 4:13, Psalms 46:10,
Psalms 51:10, and Psalms 34:1. Keep the faith and may God Bless you and yours forever.
Love in Christ, brother bob

May our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ grant mercy,love and compassion upon you and all the members of your family both living and deceased.

You and your family will be in my prayers. It is all about relationship, with God and others….be blessed my friend…….Charlie

God Bless you John.

I’ve been out of work for about two months, not may job leads in sight, and my wife has been very ill during this time. I’ve been feeling sort of low, and sorry for my self.

Thank you for your story of courage; you’ve changed my day around. If you’ve got the guts to keep going (and it must be a bucket full) so can I.

You hang in there Buddy! If you’re ever in CT I can show you some sweet back-roads to ride!

Just wanted to commend you on your spirit, enthusiasm, dedication, drive, and loyalty in life, living, and what you have put into J&P Cycles. Your letter says it all. I pray you get a transplant soon and live for many years to come in richness and in health.
Be strong!
John

John –

What an inspirational story! I sincerely hope your condition will improve whether by receiving a lung transplant or otherwise. Keep on keeping on and I wish you all the best.

Regards,

Bill

John,
My wife and I are avid riders and the youth pastors in our church. We will be lifting you and your family up in prayer brother.

I am a customer of J&P CYCLES SOMETIMES PURCHASED DIRECTLY OR THROUGH MY BUDDIES BIKE SHOP.

We have built several (9) customised Harleys and Metric Customs and won 14 1st place trophies at local bike shows all using kuryakan and others parts etc…

Thanks for the encouragement and we with our 5 children (Twins 6, Boys 10&11 and daughter 14) enjoy the same simple things in life with family and friends close by for good food, pool parties and rides…

Sincerely, Gene Gagliardi
Blackwood NJ

John,
My wife and I are avid riders and the youth pastors in our church. We will be lifting you and your family up in prayer brother.

I am a customer of J&P CYCLES SOMETIMES PURCHASED DIRECTLY OR THROUGH MY BUDDIES BIKE SHOP.

We have built several (9) customised Harleys and Metric Customs and won 14 1st place trophies at local bike shows all using kuryakan and others parts etc…

Thanks for the encouragement and we with our 5 children (Twins 6, Boys 10&11 and daughter 14) enjoy the same simple things in life with family and friends close by for good food, pool parties and rides…

Sincerely, Gene & Elsa Gagliardi
Blackwood NJ

I’m a kidney donor. Aside from seeing my kids born, it was the best thing I’ve ever been a part of. I urge everyone to consider becoming a donor. Knowing that someone is alive because of you is an amazing feeling. The way I look at it is if we can live with half a liver, one lung, and one kidney, maybe, just maybe this is something we were made to do?

I hope you find a donor soon so you can get back to enjoying life. You’re in my thoughts.

Dear John,
I fully understand where you’re coming from. My name is Michael Rayo and I live in Mesa Arizona. I moved here about 6 years ago from Petaluma, Calif. And at that time, the real estate market was out of hand. I was able to retire at 51 years old from the flooring business (union) and at that time, went through a divorce with my lovely wife and friend of life. Yeah, she was my best friend.. We just couldn’t live together. Married close to 20 years..Anyway, I always, one way or another, took care of her. I’d send her her fair share of my monthly retirement money and whenever she needed something, like new carpet for her condo, a refrig, and washer/dryer, I was able to get it for her. I’m now 60 years old and have been alone for almost 9 and half years. But she and I always spoke or emailed one another at least 3 or 4 times a week.
My ex-wife, Jennifer was a very special lady. I always told her that if she ever needed anything, that I’d try my hardest to help her out. She always worked out, did yoga, eat well, and meditated. In Jan. 12th, she was diagnose with ‘Glioblastamo”.. A brain tumor. She was operated on to remove most of the mass, but it was to late. The doctors gave her 3 to 6 months to live. She died in 2 months..
She had a great sense of humor. True to the end. And I’ll tell you, I miss my best friend. And so do her sons and friends. I’ll always remember her for her zest of life, her story telling, and her great laugh.
I guess what I’m saying here John, is no matter what, always stay true to your family and try to keep your sense of humor in tact. .. It does help you while you’re sick and dealing with the fact that your ailment is serious.
Live to ride, ride to live..
Take care and best of luck to you..
Michael Rayo..From Mesa Arizona..

Thank you for your encourging words to everyone when you’re the one faced with such a battle ahead.
My husband Fisher and I plan to attend your open house this year for the first time. We look forward to meeting you if you’re able to be there as well. Just know that you and your family will be in our thoughts and prayers in the months ahead.
I am an organ donor and plan to talk to friends and family about becoming one too.
Anita Lanius

Thanks for everything John. You rock….

Prayers for strength coming your way John.

Godspeed in life,

Bob

Hi John;
You never know one day from the next what happens to you. I would believe that most of us baby boomers have similar health issues probably not as bad as yours.
I had a stroke about 2 years ago and was finally diagnosed last month as the cause of my short term memory loss. i lost my last job because i just could not remember and was
criticized from the manager about being a vp of engineering at the last job but could not remember autocad functionality, i ask him to fire me ,which he gladly did.. it took 2 years and then i went to the dr. and he had an mri , mra and then psycological testing done the past week for 8 hours.
I am fortunate that i have a Rn,BS. nurse practioner for a daughter that lives near by.
All i can say is that you are doing the right thing in writing about your illness. most patients get worse from hospitals,
‘take care
alex shulick

John,

Thank you for your message and trying to help all the others in this world, especially fellow bikers. Your unselfishness is evident in both your words and actions. Let’s hope together that all of us can catch that spirit. I’ll be praying for a donor for you, and trying to appreciate what I’ve been given as you suggest. God Bless you.

I’m truely sorry and pray for the best for you and yours. Thank you for all you have provided everyone in this great nation.

John, I have you in my prayers.

-David

John,

I wish you and your family well through this difficult time. Bravo to you for writing this letter and reminding all of us how precious our lives are and to advocate for organ donation! I am and always will have my license state I am a donor!! We all should.

V/r
Kathleen F.

Wow! …Keep up the good fight John. My thoughts are with you.

John God Bless you and your family

John, I pray that you can endure, and that your wife , Jill, and you can still share some more life. It seems that they are finding more ways to cure illnesses, but I know your lungs do not grow back. I am proud to tell you that J & P Cycles was a major parts supplier for my 55 replica 80 inch Panhead I built and have been riding for a decade. I know that J & P has always been a reliable source for motorcyclists, and for that I thank you. May you find happiness in whatever comes your way. God bless.
Keep it in the sun!
btw: “Keep it in the sun!” does not mean to be a fair weather biker, it means to keep a smile and a positive attitude. Sincerely, Rod Hatter

I’m not a religious man, not by a long shot. But I want you to know that you and yours have only my best wishes and hopes. J&P Cycles has always been a stand up company as far as I’m concerned, and that says a lot, not only about the employees, but the people at the top.

John, a very moving letter, one that I am sure will get people to stop and think about what is REALY important in life and by doing so you have provided an invaluable service!

I turned 60 in March, I have 3 wonderful children and currently 6 beautiful grandchildren and a wonderful wife of 42 years. Turning 60 makes one realize the clock is ticking and the time to enjoy life and family is limited and we all need to appreciate every moment we have with them. From one of your loyal customers I wish you and your family well John and may you have many more wonderful years with them, espicaly that your grandchild Kaiden, I will say a prayer for that!

Best Regards, stay strong in mind and heart John!

Brian

So sorry to learn of your ill health these last few years. We will keep you in our thoughts and prayers. I have just recently added my name as a donor.

Mr Parham I am wishing you a speedy recovery so you can scratch everything off your list. The bucket list is a good movie. Another good one is called One Week, it is a Canadian movie starring Joshua Jackson from Fringe. Its about a guy who gets diagnosed with terminal cancer and buys an old Norton. Its really good.

U have the right frame of mindset. Keep God 1st. in ur life and all things are possible. My family and I will keep u in our prayers. I know u will make a strong comeback. God is not finished with u as of yet. With all blessings 2 u and ur family, Mike (jitterbug) Coleman and the Buffalo Soldiers south Florida chapter. God bless You.

Although we have never met, I have seen some of your work with the fine business you have established and the great store (a museum in itself with some of my favorite bikes!) at Destination Daytona. It is said that we are judged by our works, and you have certainly done your share. I wish you a long and even more fulfilling life and I hope that you and Jill can finish up your second, third, and fourth lists! I have a ride to visit the National Motorcycle Museum on my list, after my daughter’s completion of college. God Bless you, John. And thank you for the inspiration!

Que Dios lo bendiga y lo llene de luz, su carta me conmovio muchisimo pues mi papa murio de enfisema pulmonar y al igual que usted tampoco nunca fumo, pero bueno asi es de contradictoria la vida.
De todo corazon le deseo que todo salga bien y que Dios le de la fortaleza.
Desde la Ciudad de Mexico con mucho cariño
MARY Y CARLOS WUSTERHAUS

I can relate. I went in for a routine heart catheterization at age 44 to see how well my heart was functioning. I had quadruple bypass surgery three days later. God be with you and I hope you find your donor.

Evan L Butcher

Good luck John,hopefully you can get some new lungs,you might try stem cell research.Iam a retired firefighter of 30 yrs,I know Ive punished my lungs,at this point they seem to be ok, Im 69,and wonder why Im still kicking,Ive been retired for 14 yrs thank God,and so far Ive ridden 500,000 miles,and no doubt there are guardian angles.Another fireman bro of mine has been fighting bone cancer plus for 3 yrs,we pray alot,and we will pray for you John. His cancer comes and goes the doctor scratches his head and says it can’t be!! obviously prayers are a great healer so hang in there John buddy
GOD BLESS YOU
len buechler
spokane,wa

Dear Jiohn you are a truly remarkable man and inspiration to us all in business you built your business up from nothing and are now the greatest Accessory store in the world- with great people in Dayona Beach, Little Fred for one of many ! your Daytona bike week sales and store are amazing with Sean from Anamosa and your good self and Jill being there in person we all aim to meet your standards- all the bet for the future and keep in there – respectfully- Mike Chadwick- Custom Cruisers UK

Hey John,
Hang in there Bro!! We’ll keep you in our prayers as well. Good luck in continuing your struggle back to good health. Life is a fight itself ! Bikers are a rare breed and always stick together in some way or fashion. Take car of yourself ! Good Luck!
God Bless,
JonBoy

I want to wish you well – and a speedy recovery – I have a grandson also and he is my world – I just recieved my new tdl today in the mail and I have a little red donor heart in the bottom for the first time ever & I also recieved a package from your company that I ordered this week – Then I open this email and read your letter – how crazy it that!!!!!!
Hope its along time before I cash in put in the event I hope I live on helping people like you that still have things to do!!!

Take care

Hi John: I’m sure you will find a donor and that you will back “as new” with new energy to be more years with your loved ones. Life is a never ending story and sometimes the story is not the way we like, but never the less is our story. Saludos from the sunny Island of Puerto Rico!

Thank-you John for the encouragement andChallenge.I can relate as I am being streched to consider these gems we seem to forget about.You are in my prayers there is soo much you need to do .I will pray for strength and courage.for you and direction.oh and thanks for the a-1 service that keeps my old cop bike goingI hope ang pray that I can ride this year.keep on keeping on brother.R.J.

John…
God Speed…
I will put you in my prayers…
You know about 2yrs ago…I became a donor in the State of Washington…I had a hard time doing it but as you really thought of the good it could create for somebody else…and now gives me peace of mind..
I started riding again about 4 yrs ago and now is my passion…we started with a group of a few guys now we have 25 in our group…we totally love it..
They call me “The Godfather” and leader of our group…we hope someday to be in the hundreds…but will add people as it works for us…you are so right people who ride…are truly friend and have a lot of passion for life..
Be well ..
Wish I could make it to yr event
thank you
Dennis Minugh

John,
You don’t know me but I am touched by your story. I pray that you get a transplant very soon. Your spirits seem to be good and it’s nice to see that. God, family, friends and even strangers will help you through this. You will remain in my thoughts and prayers.

God Bless You Always!!!!!
Pam

I will be praying for you. My husband and I are coming to your open house next week. We are coming in from South Bend, Indiana. Hope to get to meet you but if not God Bless you.

John,

Thank you for telling us of your circumstances that have inspired you to experience life to the fullest. I wish you the best in your recovery. Fighters are winners.

Your words are inspiring especially to those of us who have not been hit so hard…. so many of us think the daily grind is difficult…. we’re too busy to appreciate the important and simple things in life. Because of you, I will now register as a donor and start my bucket list.

Thank you again,

Rich Seville

Good luck and God bless you.I am an organ donor for the reasons you stated.If you are half as good a guy as the company you run, than you deserve the best.

Thanks so much for your candor. And for your inspiration. You are right, we all need to start slowing down and not taking things for granted. As the old saying goes, “stop and smell the roses”. I wish you the best with your battle and my prayers are with you and your family.

John,

I have been employed at a funeral home in Athens, GA for the last fifteen years and have ridden motorcycles since 2000. My occupation provides me with a great deal of self examination.

I am reminded each day of the suggestions that you mentioned in your article. While we truly should live each day as though it were our last, most people don’t.

I never knew until I started riding motorcyles what a fantastic fraternity I was joining. I have met so many people who enjoy the same stress free ride on a Saturday afternoon.

I wish the you the best of luck and hope your transplant comes soon so that you can continue to enjoy life with your wife and grandchild.

Good luck.
Jason Wommack

John and Jill, We’ve never met personnally but I have enjoyed doing business-the American way- with people who appreciate your business and act like it. I have always recieved great service and a fair price and I thank You for that. I’ll be praying for you and that you may recieve the healing touch that we all desire for you. May the good Lord hear and answer my prayers for you.

I am headed back to Florida , But in Tn they make orgin donation easy . They ask you when you get your license and put a tiny heart in the corner of your new license . They also give you a soft rubber bracelet that says donate for life . I wear mine .
Best of luck and good health .

Hi John,
I will be riding over from Indiana to attend your open house, and hopefully get a chance to offer a prayer and best wishes in person. Stay strong, and always kick start your faith anew each morning.

God Bless
Drew Gatewood

John,
First off sorry to hear about your present illness. Second off I’m glad to hear you talk about your faith in God and to publicly express it. It is sad that it takes an illness or a tragety for us to realize what’s important or for us to get our priorities straight. My family has designated to be a donor on our drivers license. Unfortunately we had the opportunity to use it. Our daughter was killed in a car accident when she was 16. We donated her corneas and heart valves as that was all that we could. Our only saving grace was our faith in the Lord and her salvation that she wrote about the day before. She always talked about moving to New York,we live in South Dakota, so it was cool to find out one of her corneas went to New York!
Stay strong and continue to trust in the Lord,
praying for you,
Todd Sorenson

Sorry to hear of your immense medical conditions. We lost two sons in less than two months time to unrelated car accidents. I know how important organ donating is. My other two sons are both organ donors now, prayers for you and your family

John,

All my family’s best to yours as you fight the good fight. “Tomorrow is guaranteed to no one” someone said, it changed the way I’ve treated folks most of my life.

Organ donor 33 yrs, no hurry to give them up!
Lost a Navy Brother last week as he rode, he is helping others now.

God Bless you and yours!!!

Jim

John,

You’re absolutely right about how important the simple things are. To a large extent, I think our society has forgotten that, and it’s sad that one often has to face mortality before it comes back into focus.

I’m sorry to hear of your illness, I’ll keep you in my thoughts and prayers, and I hope you’re able to get a transplant soon.

Mark Pixler

Hang tough it’s to early in yourlife to let go my father went through the somewhat same ordeal a while back so I understand what you are going through. My wife and I to have a bucket list and we try to knock one thing off each month or at least 3 per year. Good luck and hang tough

HI JOHN, SORRY TO HEAR THE NEWS. I HAVE BEEN A LOYAL CUSTOMER FOR SOME TIME AND LIKE MAKING OUT MY WISH LITS FROM YOUR CATALOG! YOU ARE RIGHT,TAKE TIME TO ENJOY LIFE AND LIVE IN THE HERE AND NOW! HANG IN THERE AND BEST WISHES.
CAPT RICK

Hang in there my friend. There is a reason for all of this and someday it will be made know to you. As for the rest of us, thankyou for opening your heart and soul to us. Live toRide and most definately, Ride to Live.

randy

Dear John,

Very well said. I like you am a business owner of almost 30 years and was diagnosed with Sarcoidosis in 2003. Like you, the diagnosis has changed the way I look at life. I’m a nicer person than I was prior to the diagnosis.

I just wanted to say that I wish you well and hope that should you need it, you get your transplant. I have been donor for many years with the hope that I might help someone in the event I end up donating an organ. I never put much thought to being the one that might end up needing a transplant. So, thank you for being brave enough to tell the world about your condition and exposing once again the need for folks to put the little red heart on their drivers license… (that’s the way they do it here in Washington State).

My very best to you and your family.

Dennis R. Streich

John, My husband and I are faith believing Christians. We ride a Suzuki trike. I am an organ donor, and have been since it was first announced to the public. We will be praying for a Divine healing. But if that is not to be, then we pray for Divine Favor, that you will get the donation that you need.

God Bless, John and Judy Thornton

John:

Thanks for posting, as I was going day to day I forgot some of my most wonderful blessings because they have always been there. A common human fault I share with others. Of course our prayers are with you and your family. Although I now live in South Carolina, I am a Northeast Nebraska farmboy and have followed your company progress with pride. Thanks for allowing the rest of the world know that Iowa and perhaps the rest of the bread basket states are places where dreams can come true. And even though I loved the movie, maybe becaused I’ve had a love for motorcycles most of my life, I like your and your families story the best.

Take Care My Friend

Tim

Sorry to hear your lung problem has progressed this far. Are you in need of anything? Can’t help ya with a lung ’cause mine are also shot. The last time I was at your shop in Anamosa, I had to stop and sit on the ground in order to make it through the enormous grounds that you have up there. I am glad you are still above ground, as I am every day when I get on my bike to ride to work. I was disabled as a firefighter and it wasn’t smoke that got me but a SNAFU during getting an epidural in my back. I ended up in ICU and lost memory of a full month of my life. I sure had a different outlook at life afterwards. As soon as I was able to get around, thank goodness that your store was kind of a light at the end of the tunnel. Because of technical laws in Workman Comp laws it bankrupt my family. Thanks to good people I was able to keep my bike which is a great phyciatrist when you are down. I was able to scratch up enough coin to buy a couple things at your store for my bike though. Amazing how priorities change when you realize one’s mortality. The main thing that made me realize how lucky I truly am was seeing the Easy Rider bike of Captain America, and how that movie ended. I realized that when the end is truly in your face, you really appreciate life’s simple pleasures. I do hope that you have a good summer and hope to see ya again at your open house this year. Keep pluggin’ away and keep the faith.

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. I never take life for granted. God has given us a marvelous gift on earth in in heaven. My wife and I are living out our dreams while we can because you never know what’s around the bend. Live strong and continue to fight!

WOW,

John, Your words are inspiring, 3 things I will do today: Hug my wife, kids and grandkids, start my bike, and become an organ donor.

Peace to You and Yours

Butch Carter

May G-d Bless you, and make you better again. Never lose hope, G-d is with us all. I will pray for you.

ANIMOS MR JOHN!!!

DESDE MEXICO LE DESEAMOS UNA PRONTA RECUPERACION Y ESPERAMOS PRONTO SABER QUE ESTA DE NUEVO TRABAJANDO HOMBRO CON HOMBRO COMO LO HA HECHO EN TODA SU VIDA

UN FUERTE ABRAZO

John,
My prayers and blessing are with you, May God the Almighty send you Blessings & Favor, Supernatural Wisdom & Strength, Abundance & Increase, Success & Prosperity, and Total Healing from your disease, for He is the Almighty and all things are possible through Christ our Lord and Savior. God the Father will Love those who Love Him.
Peace My Brother
Dick Maynard

Hi John.

I had open heart surgery in Dec 09. Your comments are right on about what we have in life. I have coined the expression “LIFE IS A GIFT — RIDE LIKE YOU STOLE IT”

All the best
Fraser
London ON Canada

John, we are saddened to learn of your battle, but want you to know that our F.A.I.T.H. Riders Chapter at London Bridge Baptist Church in VA Beach, VA is praying for you. Thank you for your letter and for sharing your heart. My wife and I have been organ donors for years now, and we will share your letter with our folks. We pray that our Heavenly Father will provide you with a “new” strong set of lungs, so that you may have a longer life and may give HIM all the honor and glory!

Thank you for writting this letter. My husband, a faithful customer for many years had a kidney transplant just over 4 years ago, and has a second chance at a good life thanks to a generous donor and her family. We always like to spread the word and urge everyone to become a donor. We wish you all the best and will be praying for YOUR donor soon!

God bless you you are in my prayers.

God Bless you to John. My prayers are with you. I wish you a full & speedy recovery, and pray you get the lung transplant you need. I am the Parts Counter Manager for Santa Maria Harley-Davidson, and have been in the industry for just about 10 years. I have witnessed firsthand the good as well as the bad that happens in the wonderful world of motorcycles. That is why I am an oragan donor. I lost a good friend a few years ago to a non motorcycle related accident, he had just turned 21 years old a few months before he passed away. He was an oragan donor though, and because of this, i heard thru the family that a few different people were saved or benifited from my friends priceless donation. I hope you get your’s, and again, God Bless you and your family and friends. Stay strong.
Kory N. Weaver

Mr. Parham – I don’t know if you will see this but I know someone with your condition that has made remarkable improvements by working with Duke Medical in North Carolina. I really suggest you make contact with them.

God bless you brother, you are for sure in my prayers, stay strong. Already a doner but thanks for putting the word out. Dan

Hello John & Jill …

I received your letter today. Read it in it’s entirety twice. God has given you a challenge. He also has given you the strength to deal with it and become stronger because of it. That is apparent in your letter. Please know my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family! God Bless You!

A customer …
Deb Carr

John,

Thank you for the inspirational letter! It is so good to hear you’re doing better. My family and I will continue to pray for you and for a matching donor.

Blessings,

Peter

As a long time customer, I was saddened to hear of your health issues.
Please accept my best wishes for you and your family.
Steve Read
Santa Rosa, CA

Wow. I did’nt know. My thoughts go out to you & yours. I am a donor and yes it is a great thing to due. I too have had that emotional change in my life where all you can do is think of what you have had and what you now realize you don’t want to miss. But as the eye clears and the lump in your throat goes down the best thing you can do is twist a little throttle. Ride safe and hug the grandchildren

John,

My best to you and your family during this very trying phase of your life. Your message is very heartfelt and unselfish.

God Bless
Jon

Keep The Faith Will be praying for healing. With god all thing’s are possible. Be brave brother! Look foward to meeting you in heaven someday God BLESS

Dear John,

Thank you for sharing your story, and for your positive message. It is a shame that so many people take life so for granted, and it takes an unexpected turn to “wake us up” to the realities of life. I was one of those people.

I lost my wife at the age of 52 to breast cancer this past February. During her seven year journey with breast cancer, she taught me many things. Of those lessons, one of the most important is to live life more in the moment because there are no guarantees about tomorrow.

We travelled as much as we could, followed our favorite country singer to concerts, spent time with family and friends and, more importantly, learned to see and appreciate all of the “little miracles” that are around us. You probably know what I am talking about; how beutiful the trees are as the sun shines through, how fresh and clean the air smells, how blessed we are with loving family and friends.

Mary never passed up an opportunity to extend a hand of freindship and support to friends, strangers and other cancer patients. She was a 7th Grade Language Arts teacher who absolutely loved the kids, her coworkers and school district.

I wish you well and will keep you, and Jill in my thouhts and prayers.

God Bless

This was a very heartfelt message that Mr. Parham sent out to all of his clients. It’s very nice to see that a busy person such as Mr. Parham will take the time out of his day and write such a personal message to his customers. More high ranking businessmen can take a good example from Mr. Parham’s in the face of such adversity has persevered and overcome his ailments. Even though the road is long a dangerous, Mr. Parham still takes the time to write such wonderful wisdom.

I have been a motorcycle rider for over 6 years and have 2 motorcycles, a V Star 650 and a Ducati 999. J&P Cycles has been my vendor of choice for many aftermarket parts and OEM parts for both of my bikes. I often take advantage of their sales and promotions that get sent out via email and have saved hundreds of dollars.

I wish the Parham family continued success and good health to Mr. Parham. He will be in my prayers.

With much respect,
Juventino Gaytan

My best wishes to you and your family. I have cousins that share the same affliction as you. Some have had it since their youth. You have a tough road ahead but remember that your customers and friends are riding along with you in their prayers and their thoughts. Thank you for taking the time to remind us that not only for your sake that there are others out there that can benefit from each and every rider through prayers, fundraisers, and of course the perpetual gift of organ donation.

Sincerely,

Johnny L. Sartain
Director
American Legion Riders Post 49
Tupelo, MS

John, I’m nearing a similar situation. Polysistic Kidney Disease. It’s heritary and has killed 3 out of 5 of my family. I was diagnosed in 1993. I’ll need a kidney in 3 -13 months. Glad to see your pushing organ donation. That’s why we do our rally cruise. WE take 16 bikers on every cruise that are tied to a kidney machine along with us every cruise. Machines, nurses, cabin and airfare all for FREE. We’d love to have a speaker like you on stage one night to help push the donor cause. See our dialysis website at http://www.hohsdialysisfund.org/ When your ready we’ll give you a FREE balcony cabin. We also celebrated our 35th wedding Anniversary last year. Hang in there John!

John, I’am truly sorry to hear about your illness. You’ve been a tremendous asset, and friend to the motorcycle community. I will keep you in my prayers.

As a customer of J&P, I have always been satisfied with the service and products you supply, but that’s not really why I am sending this note…

What I want to say is, I truly appreciate all of your struggles and what the coming months will bring you. May you receive the transplant soon. It will make all of the difference in the world for you.

Be well and stay uplifted knowing that there are so many out here that may not know you, but are grateful every time we open our mailbox and find your latest catalog nestled in with the bills.

Jen

God Bless you ! Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you !
Also as a Harley rider I must tell you that, yes, I am an organ donor.

Good Luck John
My thoughts are with you, you have built a great company, you should be proud.
Keep fighting.

Brian

John, I’m kinda at a loss for words. I have been a customer of J&P for 30 years. I plan on being a J&P customer for alot more. I feel terrible about this difficult challenge you and Jill have been given. Keep the Faith. And God bless you both. Jane and I will be praying for you.
Good luck Pard,
Bob

Hi John,

Good advice about the bucket list and taking time to smell the proverbial roses. Also a great message regarding becoming an organ donor. I added my name to the list many years ago when a close friend of mine lost all kidney function.

Best wishes and get well soon!

Peter Gingras

I want to tell you that you are in our prayers. My wife who is 36 has been diagnosed with multiple sclerosis. It is a very disabling disease for a young woman. She has had trouble keeping a job and her dream of riding is practically gone.
Thank you for your service.

Best wishes in your recovery,I will keep you in my prayers,Good Luck

For most of us, it takes a wake up call to know how blessed we are to be able to enjoy the simple things in life. God blessed you and you passed it on by reminding us all to recognize every day that we are never promised more than the moment at hand. I have had health issues that made me realize what a short time we get in this world. I am ready when God calls me home but like you, I want all of us to get the full joy out of whatever time we have left. God bless you and your family. Keep telling everyone to be thankful for everything they have.

Im sorry to here about your health problems and we have said a prayer for a transplant.I wish when we were young, we would have had the knowledge we know now as to what is really important, religion, health, family, ect. Again, we will keep you in our prayers. K. Gallup

Dear John,

A very touching and heartfelt letter. I know that you are in everyone’s prayers for a recovery. I hope that you have the opprtunity for the lung transplant. A friend of ours had one 10 years ago after 40 years of smoking and she is doing great now.

Regards,
Bill Clawson
Leawood, KS

Just read your letter.It makes me to work harder on controlling my diabetes.Was told by dr. if I did’nt my kidneys may shut down.Your letter really touched home.May God Bless you.you & your family will be in my prayers daily from now on.

James Webb

John,
I am a Pastor in Bristol Tn. I ride a Harley and so I am constantly looking at bike parts through and from various companies in America. Of Course J&P is one of my favorites. I read through your email and simply wanted to say thank for having the courage to fight as well as share your heart with the world. We will be praying with you for a complete turn around in your health and lungs, albeit transplant or God doing a miracle. Thank you again.
God Bless

Dale Wright

John,

God bless you in your treatment. I know through watching my wife with Interstital lung disease how she has reacted to many of the same indicators you mentioned in your pulmonary fibrosis. Continue to fight and strenth to you and your family.

Our prayers are with you. My sisters, sisterinlaw was diagnosed with that dease or something similar and she was blessed with a double lung transplant in Flordia. She was only suppose to get 1 lung but the other recipient died before they could get her the lung. Caarrie is doning very well now. She considers it a miracle from god. I hope you can blessed in the same way. Our prayers are with you.
John Stewart

Hi John & Jill,

I will always remember our visit together in the halls at the 2009 Dealer Expo show in Indy and how you both were so welcoming to me as I had just entered the industry with our Speed-Way Shelters. We always hope to have our product with J & P however I wanted to say that your support and kindness that day stuck with me and I will always remember it. I needed your “American Dream” letter to get my thoughts back in line and to start living for the moment. Your letter was well received and we all needed it. Especially coming from a man of fine integrity like yourself. Our best to you and Jill and lets all enjoy each day to the fullest as the simple things are truely more appreciated after hearing from you. Be Well.
Best Always, Don Reeves
Speed-Way Motorsports Shelters

John,

God bless you in your treatment. I know through watching my wife with Interstital lung disease how she has reacted to many of the same indicators you mentioned in your pulmonary fibrosis. Continue to fight and strenth to you and your family.

Tracy

I would like to say that I am truely sorry to hear of your medical misfortune. I to suffer from lung trouble as well.(copd). So I can understand the feelings that you have about wanting to see your children and grandkids grow up and experience the joy of seeing them go through life. I myself have had pneumonia 10 time’s in my life and know the feeling well. It really make’s you appreciate the little thing’s in life. I have 35 grandkid’s so I know what its like to feel like there is not enough time to do all that you want to. But believe me when I say you will see a lot more now than ever before. I am already on organ donor and hopefully more people will sign up after they read your letter, because your right there isn’t enought of them. Good luck to you and keep up the fight,the world need’s more people like you.

Thank you for taking the time to write this. I have been a volunteer for my community with the Trauma Intervention Program. I have seen many ill people and have been with families that have just experienced the death of a loved one.
One of the things that I always hear is the importance of the simple things in nature, family, friends and our faith. How beautiful for you to share from your heart with us. Getting this out hopefully will inspire and educate people on the gift of Organ Doning as well. Please continue sharing your thoughts with us, every breath we take is a gift from God, stay strong in your faith, and may the joy of the Lord and joy you get from Kaiden renew your strength. Bless you and thank you, Linda Hopkins

John:
I’m so sorry to hear about your health issues. I have been a customer for 15 years or so and it has certainly been a pleasure doing business with you. I want to wish you and the family the best of luck with your current situation and I thank you for the reminder that the simple things are the most important. We must be about the same age, and we’ve been married about the same number of years. I’m enjoying the grandchildren too.
Give Jill a big kiss and keep making long bucket lists. You have a great many friends, that you have yet to meet, pulling for you.
Bob
Huntsville, Al

John, I had no idea this was going on in your life. We have never met, but I feel I know you from the website, catalogs, And other industry news. I wish you all the best & You will be in thoughts & prayers.

Jeffrey Cheatham
Sandston, Va.

I hated to read this and wish you the best of luck in your search. I’ve bought a lot of stuff from J&P in the past and you guys have always been right by me.

Regards,
Jeff Evans

Take care you are a great person! I will say a prayer for you. I am a organ donor and have been for quite some time.
Love J & P cycle we rebuilt of 1971 Superglide because of your great company!
Be well and take care
Kay McCloud
Le Roy Minnesota

John,
Molly and I have you in our thoughts and prayers. Keep up the fight!
Paul Aiken, Aeromach

God bless you brother. You are an inspiration to us all. The way you two created a business out of nothing and now your fight to survive. It’s the true biker spirit and the spirit of America. Our prayers are with you in your time of need. I am already an organ donor and proud to be one. I hope your lung replacement happens soon so you can do all the things on your bucket list. From one of your brothers on the road thank you for the great things you have done for us bikers. You are greatly appreciated.

John,
Molly and I have you in our thoughts and prayers. Keep up the fight!

Paul Aiken, Aeromach

John….we are the same age..started our businesses the same year, and I have been married to my bride for 35 years!! God bless you, John…I will be praying for you. Thanks for giving me a glimpse of your struggle and all the good advice! I really respect your business the customer minded approach you have been able to achieve…it is not easy to get this across to employees…my guess is that you respect your employees and they have paid it forward.

I am a Christian and appreciate the love for God as evident in your message.

God Bless, John. —

Dear Mr. Parham,

Though I have never met you, but have done business now and then with your company, I would like to offer best wishes for a good recovery from your illnesses. Your letter, and a friend’s recent diagnosis of stage 4 lung cancer, has made me recognize some of those little things we don’t notice until it is too late. Again, you have my best wishes for a decent recovery.

Cheers,

Martin Towsley

Dear Mr. Parham

My heartfelt sympathy goes out to u n ur family ! My daughter is the recipient of a kidney transplant Wen my beautiful daughter was 14 she went into renal failure It turned our world upside down literaly our world was ending for us We wer blessed n she received a cadaver kidney soon after however it failed 6 years L8tr My wife n ONE family friend wer cross matched n my wife was able to DONATE LIFE to my daughter once again i.e. at birth n now We r sooo blessed We went to university hosp in san antonio they have an excellent program They dub themselves Experts in Life n they truly r They perform hundreds of transplants a year lungs included Unfortunately until it happens to us we r more compasionate considerate etc. I no first hand ! N people can b sooooo crule simply by starring at someone ill . Well my renewed license states they can take anythin they need in the event of my death. Wood b my turn to give or enhance sumone elses life . Mr.Parham may the luv n grace of our Lord Jesus Christ descend upon you n ur family n may he hold u safely in his arms God Bless You !

John, your words of strength could not be more true as the little things in life are the most precious. The last 3 yrs have taken me places I’d rather not be, but I have come to realize the same things you wrote. After 4 back surgeries and too much time spent in hospital and at home recovering, much thought and reflecting have changed my outlook. Granted I am not fighting for my life….everyone has a cross to bare! I don’t plan on getting to the “Pearly Gates” in pristine condition, but rather road worn having enjoyed the most of what I can. All the best to you and your family. Keep up the “Good Fight” and God bless!
ps….I’ve been an organ donor for since the early 80′s
Kevin

Best wishes and god bless

Had my heart jump started at 37 and lung cancer at 60 ( They cut out some parts) so I know somewhat about what you are going through. Being on the hose is a pain and not being able to walk anywhere is a real pain in the A–. I would love to take my dog for a real walk. So you hang in there brother and remember ‘Good things happen to good people’ so I know you will be OK.

John, Iwill keep you in my prayers. I hope you stay comfortable and recover well soon so you can complete your third bucket list. I have enjoyed your great company for years and look forward to many more. Get well soon. Denny McFerrin

I know what you are takling about and I am doing thing like you are. I was diaganosed with Invasive Colon Cancer Stage 4 in Oct. 08. It progressed to my liver and chest and back bones. I Had tumors removed from my colon and been on chemo since Apr 09 for tumors in my liver and bones. I still ride because my Doctor told me not give up the things I enjoy. May God be on your side.

John,
I can fully appreciate what good health means and how it changes your priorities. I underwent unexpected heart surgery in January (A double bypass, a mitral valve repair, and a maze). It wasn’t due as much to bad living as bad genes. After these types of events, you realize that those daily little things aren’t as important as they seemed to be. Life is ours to enjoy.

My ex-father-in-law grew up in the “dustbowl” and started with nothing and became one of the wealthiest men in the state. He worked hard all his life to realize his dream of travelling and playing golf all around the world. He ended up working so hard, that; even though he had (as far as Forrest Gump would say) “more money than God”, he spent his last seven years in a recliner, due to failing health, unable to fully enjoy what he had accomplished. He never did get to travel, and ironically lived on a golf course that he was never able to play.

I felt honered to know this man, and vowed to not lose sight of what’s important in life.

I wish you the best of luck, and that you are able to enjoy the fruits of your labor, for many years to come. Make that 2nd, 3rd, 4th, etc bucket list and enjoy what you have accomplished.

I have always been on the organ donor list and encourage everyone else to do the same.

Good Luck!

Sincerely,

Rich Gomez

John, here’s wishing you a full and speedy recovery, and that transplant you need! Best of luck and God bless you and your family!!

John, God bless and best of luck to you.

Anthony Atrox